Ghanaian actor, model, now turned evangelist, Majid Michel gives out a word of Advice to all men out there on how to be better fathers to their daughters.
The award-winning actor took to his official Instagram page where he shared texts from his conversation with Akosua Sarfoa as he points out some key points that fathers are to take note of in nurturing their female children.
According to him, most girls walk around with daddy issues due to their upbringing because some of the fathers in most cases are not actively involved in parenting and don’t play their roles.
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Speaking about daughters, Majid asserted that a lot of girls walking around that seem sex thirsty are actually love thirsty. “They haven’t gotten love before and need it badly” he added.
And that is due to the absence of fathers in the upbringing/parenting whose prevsence will help fill that emotional needs of their female children.
Majid Michel advised fathers to always relate well by creating a better bond with their daughters in other to help prevent them from becoming easy target for guys (sexual predators) who would just have to give her access to a little kindness by way of say money, in exchange for sex.
The anointed man of God went on and also spoke about prostitutes, he referred to ladies who engage into such acts as people who aren’t bad but are just people who are broken. Read further below as he gives detailed explanation to this.
Read thus full write-up below
My conversation with @akosuasarfoa__ AKOSUA: A lot of girls walk around with daddy issues due to their upbringing. Men are taught that they are useless in child nurturing except for providing money (which is absolutely untrue).
Hence lots of men are not actively involved in parenting and don’t play their roles. This causes the children to grow up with daddy issues. For the girls, they mostly go looking for love in other guys.
A guy would just have to give her access to a little kindness by way of say money, tell them they are beautiful and bam! The girl loves them and gives them everything they are.
A lot of the girls walking around that seem sex thirsty are actually love thirsty. They haven’t gotten love before and need it badly. Yes, sex is pleasurable for girls definitely. But it’s mostly love they are trying to give and receive, or at least appreciate.
Sex is more emotional than physical to girls. Sex is an expression or reception of love to women. So you see, a girl showing you everything she has is not screaming ‘sleep with me’, but “love me!”
Likewise, lots of prostitutes are broken women. Not bad people. Just broken people. i don’t think it’s normal for a woman to sleep randomly with men she has no emotional connection with. Every night, random strangers, why? She must be really broken.
Almost “unmendable”, really (but definitely mendable with the person called Love). How else would such a channel be chosen? She’d have to turn off her emotions, which is the core of her soul, the very core of who she is, just to make that money. Why??.
Could be many reasons, but included would definitely be that she probably doesn’t trust that men really can love women or she’s probably never met a man who has genuinely loved her.
So her mindset is, “let me give them what they want so they can give me what i need.” i stand to be corrected, i haven’t done any extensive research, but if i were them, that’s what i’d probably be thinking.
